The culmination of things both decided and certain...

I have observed that at some point in a person's life everything that you've regretted and all of those poor decisions you've made catch up with you--sometimes all at once, in a vacant parking lot, where you have to pull over, perhaps because you have just found yourself swept up by the violent thrashing of an ugly cry that causes you to lose all gross motor skills and you begin to make noises reminiscent of mating hippopotamuses. You find yourself sitting there, in your Camry Hybrid, crying and gnashing your teeth. You feel hopeless and self deprecating. You feel like you have nothing to live for and that everything you will ever attempt will end in failure. Of course all these things happen after you decide that your only salvation is to move into fam camp and live in a tent sharing a coed campground shower with retired couples from Indiana living out the rest of their days moving from base to base in a Winnebego. At some point after this you might call your mom, if you don't like what your mom says you may call a friend. If you call this friend she may also say things that you don't want to hear. In spite of this, keep listening because they may be things you need to hear. She will listen to your sobbing, she will give you wise biblical advice and encouragement. She will remind you of the unlimited power of God to transform people in the most miraculous of ways. She will tell you that all is not lost and that you are precious in the eyes of a loving God. In your heart you will know that friends like that are placed here to be that friend in your life at that moment while you sit there exhausting your tear ducts and sending unintelligible awkward noises into the moonless night. After consoling you she will hang up and begin to pray for you and petition for God's help on your behalf. You will listen to K-Love and they will play the perfect songs that reach down and meet you where you are in the midst of your torrential emotions and God will draw you nearer to Himself as the songs of redemption reverberate through your consciousness. You will make up your mind to do what is right, and not what is easy. You will do what is right, come what may. I don't know, that's just something I've observed, not that this ACTUALLY happened to anyone I know, but it happened to me Monday night. Thanks Virginia.